Dependent; It is someone who relies on someone else possibly for financial support. Most women depend so much on their partners financially, while others can't take any decision or do anything on their own except their partner tell them what to do and how to do it. This is a very bad atitude. To be candid, most men do not value such women who can not do or handle some things on their own. They love and respect women who are bold and smart, not dull women who can not do anything right without their partners assistance. Meanwhile, in as much as men love independent women, they also do not feel comfortable when a woman is totally interdependent. They also wish that you seek for their help at least once in while to show that they are still the leader.
So try and balance these two (dependent and independent).
Extravagant; This simply means spending more than necessary or wasteful. No matter how much you earn or have as a woman, don't waste resources not even food because the Bible condemns it. The truth is men hate women that are wasteful, women that are extravagant and can't save. Know this, the best time to save money is when you have a kobo because if you can't save when you don't have much, you can't still save when you have plenty. No matter how much your partner has and gives to you, always save from it so that when he needs money you can surprise him by giving him the little you may have saved. Giving is not only for men, as a woman you should know how to help your partner when he need money. Don't waste for him because he suffered to make money so he can never be happy when you waste, he will simply look for someone who is more organized who save more than she spends to be with. Women are builders and not destroyers.
Greed; As secular psychological concept, greed is similarly an inordinate desire to acquire or possess more than one needs. The degree of in ordinance is related to the inability to control the reformulation of "wants" once desired "needs" are eliminated.
It is also known as avarice, cupidity, or covetousness, is the inordinate desire to possess wealth, goods, or objects of abstract value with the intention to keep it for one's self, far beyond the dictates of basic survival and comfort. Always take anything your partner gives you and don't be greedy asking for more, because they tempt most women through their gifts in other to see their reactions. Always be satisfied in everything your partner give you.
Demanding; You still believe in the myth of Prince charming and you want your man to live up to that image; Funny, well brought up, friendly, full of surprises, attentive and gorgeous. You want your partner to correspond to the portrait of the ideal man that you've dreamed of, even if it means hassling him so that he'll change and give in to your slightest whim. You're a bit of' a tyrant. You're always asking for more, give him a break and a breathing space.My advice for you is be careful, you're at risk of loosing him. Because your partner is not your lapdog that you can do what you want with. He has his own personality and his own ideas, let him exist in his own rights and learn to love him for what he is. Stop demanding for money and gifts from your partner because it drives them crazy.
Cheating; It is generally used for the braking of rules to gain an unfair advantage in a competitive situation. A cheat does not need to cheat all the time, but once faced with a challenge that they do actually win, they will go back to their cheating. Cheating can occur in various forms, physically and emotionally. Historically, many cultures have considered cheating a very serious crime. Therefore, a cheat can always loose her partner. Naturally, men hate infidelity in a relationship. Most of them will never forgive a woman who cheats though most of them cheat more than women.
Homely;It is the duty of the woman to be in charge domestically,in as much as your partner helps or takes care of some domestic activities, that does not mean you should be lazy or leave him to always do them. As a woman, your job is to take care of your home and your partner; eg. cooking, washing, cleaning. But if you don't do them, he will go and look for some else that will do them. Men need to be taken care of because they are always busy working hard just to give you the best if eventually you become his wife if you are not already. They want to put food on your table, clothe you and give you fulfilled life. So the only way to show appreciation is through caring for him and his properties.
Respect ; Every woman aught to have a maximum respect for any man especially her partner. Whether he is rich, poor, handsome or ugly. You must respect him at all times. Stop, when he says stop and do not argue when he says you should stop because it puts them off. They hate it when a woman lacks respect or full of words in her mouth (running mouth). Don't ever claim right even if you are right and when he is angry avoid talking back at him with unfiltered words. Under no circumstance should you lay curse on any man because it drives them crazy. Again men do not like women that talk a lot. Remember the Bible says that a talkative is a sinner. So try to avoid talking uncontrollable, especially when he is the type that disdains noise and talking too much.
Stealing; Like seriously, this is the height of it all, no man can take this no matter how beautiful and intelligent you are or degree of his love for you, your relationship with him will never hold water because no man would want his wife to be addressed as a thief or the children to be abused. So if you are the type that steals from your partner you have to stop it if you don't want men to be dumping you. Apart from your partner, no family will accept you as a daughter-in law or close friend.
Odour; Funny right? But I have seen a girl who was dumped because she has mouth odor. As a lady, you should learn how to take care of yourself generally. Most men do not tell you the truth about yourself. So if you notice that you have body or mouth odour, try and seek for solution. Do not feel bad or embarrassed when you are told that you have body or mouth odour okey! A woman should always shower at least twice everyday. Treat yourself if your mouth smells. Untreated infections could as well cause mouth odor so try and find out the cause of the odour.
Use deodorants(sur and body spray) it will help a lot.
In conclusion, there are other tiny reasons why men dump ladies; Men don't like ladies that lack understanding, intelligence, who tell lies, who nag,. In all, dirty, too fragile, can't cook, not accommodating, not friendly, not always happy, not prayerful(Christians)
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This is just the truth. Women you people should learn from all these
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