10 Causes Of Late Marriage

It is the wish of every girl to get married on time; no lady wants late marriage; but why is it that some ladies still marry late? What are the causes of late marriage and how can it be prevented?

Some of the causes of late marriage and their solutions are as follows;

1.Over Ambition. You have to be ambitious but not over ambitious. Always act like a lady, make out time for yourself and think  about your future as a lady except, you just don't want to get married at all.Time waits for nobody.

Also, some ladies are very dirty; they are not neat in terms of hygiene. This can chase men away. Therefore, be neat not only on the outside but also in the inside. Keep your undies clean. Your private parts must be kept clean to avoid bad odour that will chase men away.

2. Some ladies have bad character; they cannot relate well with men; they disrespect their boyfriends and shout at their boyfriends anyhow. Such ladies can only have boyfriends but it will be difficult for them to have husbands. If you have a bad character, men will only date you because of sex, but they may not marry you. If you have a bad character, a man will date you because you are beautiful and sexy and he will only use you to satisfy his sexual urge. But when it is time for him to get married, he will dump you and choose another girl that has a good character. Therefore, work on your character. Real beauty is your character; not your physical appearance.


3. Do not play too hard to get, it can lead to delay in marriage: Even if  you're not ready to settle yet. Give your suitors reasons why you're not ready yet and when you think its going to be  convenient for you to say yes to marriage, so that they don't misunderstand you and tag you 'Hard To Get'


4. Always smile; be friendly to every guy that comes your way. Being friendly does not mean that you are a flirt. Be polite to every guy that woos you; afterall it is not a crime for a guy to woo a lady. You should be happy that a guy woos you; it shows that you are worthy to be a girlfriend.

5. Always pray to God to assist you by directing your dream husband to you and not a player. Yes! 'It is not of him that runeth nor of him that willeth,but of him that showeth mercy' As Christians most times, some spiritual forces can stand against our breakthrough. So the only way out in this situation is GOD. Beauty, Intelligence, Money and all that may not be enough, that is more reason you always seek God's grace and presence

6. Stop searching for a tall, handsome and rich man. Those qualities are okay but hmm, you may keep on waiting for a rich, handsome and tall man to come and ask for your hand in marriage and before you know it, you are already 37 years old and yet the handsome tall and rich man has not yet come. So be wise; if you find a man that truly loves you and that gives you peace and happiness, marry him very fast.

7. sometimes, it is good to always attend social gathering like wedding, birthday parties, church programs, etc. Perhaps you may meet your dream man there who will be willing to marry you. Stop staying indoors all the time. Husband will not come and meet you inside your house. 80% of married ladies or men you see today, met their  husbands/wives such places. you're not a masquerade nor a house furniture, please come out from your hiding place

8. Dress ready; Your dressing matters a lot, when you're ready to settle down, it is always good to show it through your dress-code. you don't go about dressing like a baby or like 'am for sale'. Remember that the way you dress speak a lot about you. Dress decent, then you you meet your MR RIGHT and he says wear this for me (that is after marriage), you can then wear whatever he likes. Dressing half nude will only chase reasonable men who are ready to take you to alter away.

9.Class; this has really made thousands of ladies/men remain unmarried till date. In the world full of pretty ladies, intelligent men, some people are still waiting for people from the same class with them to come and marry them (women) while most men are looking for character,humble, caring, understanding,wise and peaceful women to marry not even wealthy background.well my advice for you lady who must marry an already made (billionaire), continue waiting okay, manner will fall from heaven someday.

10.finally, learn to keep secret. Do not go about announcing to your friends that you want to get married or how perfect your relationship is because of how wicked the hearts of men are.Trust no one, let them see you wed not going about telling people that ' AM ABOUT TO WED' that never comes. I tell you one thing, that person you're telling may not even be happy that you're getting married before her or marrying like her, that is why you must be careful and prayerful at the same time for God to perfect all that concerns you. God Bless You


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