Happy Sunday to you all and welcome to today's segment specially for Singles and Married.
There have been uncountable cases where a lady will be in a relationship with a guy and of a sudden, she will dump him and hook up with another guy without any cogent explanation as to why she did it.
This normally leaves most guys wondering what happened or what they have done wrong.
These are some of the reasons why ladies dump lots of guys........
She doesn't genuinely love you; The truth is if a lady doesn't truly love you, she will never commit herself to a long relationship with you so she can always dump you for another guy she feels she has a genuine love for. In as much as you love her, please try and find out if she loves you because if she doesn't, its a problem. No matter what you have or the numerous gifts you splash on her, whenever she sees her soulmate, she will always leave you.
You are not good in bed; Lets not shy away from this very one. honestly this is one of the most simplest reason why women dump most of their guys. Most ladies have sexual needs that need to be constantly met, and if their men are not performing, they tend to look for a more sexually active and active sexually performing partner. so before you fall in love with any lady, make sure she is your kind of lady sexually.Nobody said you should kill yourself trying to satisfy her sexual urge,if she is not like you, then forget her and look for your type because she will always look for another man out there if she is a nymphomaniac
You are just too boring; every relationship needs adventure. It's an essential catalyst for the relationship growth and sustenance. Some guys tend to be too conservative and self resolved, and most ladies hate it.
Ladies like guys that are creative and inventive. Someone who can joke with them and talk to them about anything. Someone who can take her out to new interesting places, have fun and try out new things together with them. They like who can invent new ways of spicing up their relationship.
If a guy doesn't meet these criteria, most ladies tend to find him boring and not much fun to be around him, and they will gradually begin to lose interest in the relationship.
You don't spend quality time with her; Ladies are created in such a way that they always crave attention, and when they don't get it, it becomes a thing of pain to them. Mot guys don't spend enough time with their ladies. They find it had to visit, call or even send text messages to their ladies often. Of course, a lot of these can be blame on work load, school and all that. But ladies really need to be shown that they are important and that their partners care about them. Where this doesn't happen they look for another guy that can treat them this way. so mind guys, money is not everything, always spend quality time with your lady no matter how tight your program seems.
You don't listen; In most relationships, most guys tend to always want to be the ones with the final say. They always want to make their opinions known without minding how their partners feel. Try listening to her even if what she is saying doesn't make sense,don't make her feel inconsequential because if you do, she will not feel free talking with you and when she sees someone that listens to her, she will start loosing interest in you.
You are secretive; Ladies don't like guys who are too secretive. This always make them paranoid and they always suspect that something else is going on in the relationship that they are not aware of. Treat her the way she treats you especially when she tells you everything, please don't keep her in the dark. Women do not understand nor see how men do, so please give her the answers she requires to allow peace reign because if you don't, she will miss the track.
You are too possessive; Although ladies like guys that are capable of taking the drive seat in a relationship, they also don't like guys that are too controlling, over powering and over possessive of them.
This includes guys that always question their actions, guys that are too jealous whenever they see them with other guys. They also dislike guys that are too conscious of their movements. Ladies see these characters as repulsive and it gives them a signal that they are not trusted which makes them loose interest in the relationship. Always give them benefit of doubt until betrayed.
You lack well defined goal; If a lady wants to commit to a long relationship with a guy, she would have to be sure that you have a bright feature ahead. This includes you having a blue print and well defined goal of your life and the one both of you are going to share.
No lady wants to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't know what her man wants in life. Someone who lacks ability to plan ahead. Someone who is not focused, hard working and does not have a goal in life.
You don't know how to take care of her; Finally, every lady needs a guy who can carter for her needs. Someone that can provide some of the basic things she needs as a woman.
If a lady finds you to be unable to provide or take care of her basic needs, she will seek for someone better.
Especially in this day and age where the needs of humans are increasing at a high rate, notably among the female gender.
These days, whether you like it or not, every lady wants to look good. They want to dress beautifully and look attractive and presentable. If a lady is dating a guy that lack in this department, she will look for someone else. Aside monetary needs, most guys also fail to understand the other needs of their ladies and they ignore these needs which make ladies to feel abandoned.
Finally, treat your lady like the princess she is because if you don't, another will do the job for you.
Have a great Sunday.
Joins us in the next week Sunday's edition on; ''WHY GUYS DUMP LADIES.''
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