Things a woman should DO when her partner cheats

Be Patient With your partner; Patience is an essential trait in someone we hope to build a strong relationship with. It takes patience to learn about each other and your personal differences. It also takes patience to adjust and to remain kind.

It take patience to have productive discussions rather than arguments. Patience is something only you can feel, others may notice it but if you do it right, nobody will  actually  know that you are even being patient because you remain so calm and gathered enough time.
Take a deep breath, and allow life to unfold as  it should. Do not act rashly or be in a hurry to judge him.

Send a Good morning Text; A text that starts your partner's day on a good note doesn't just say "good morning" It says "you are the first person I thought of when i woke up this morning". I bet you, he will always remember your sweet words even while working. Men are babies, so treat them as such. Tell them sweet things, call them sweet names always, not only when you need something from them.


Listen; In a healthy relationship, each partner relies on the other for love, guidance and advice. Particularly for the guys. If a woman is complaining to you, remember that means she trusts you enough to express her feelings to you. Do not betray her trust. Make her feel loved and do not give her some reasons that do not hold water just to avoid a particular topic.

Write Love Notes; I know we are not in high school anymore, but it will really be lovely and romantic for your partner to open a small piece of paper and sees "i love you"  "i miss you" written on it. It is a surefire way to surprise him and put a smile on his face. I know from experience how amazing it feels to have your significant other do something like this for you.

welcome him with smile; Yes you can. Most women don't see the importance of  wearing a happy face especially when you have discovered that your partner is cheating. who told you that when you frown, it will make him a better person or change him? That can only push him away the more, because men hate being where they don't feel comfortable. Treat him as though everything is normal. Always be happy when he is around, gist him, play with him. Men love to be pampered like children, you need to bring back your man with style. You will really be amazed how he will change and come to you fully even asking for your forgiveness.

Do not refuse him sex; Honestly, this is not it at all. You starve your partner of  sex because he is cheating on you. It can only make him to double his habit; maybe from one girlfriend to two, worse still into a chronic womanizer. It is his right to have you any time he wants, instead of you to refuse him that, improve in your way of doing it, look for different styles because it could be his reason for looking  for an expert outdoor. So, you need to be very good in bed, if possible add flavor to the former way you always perform.

Change your diet; Make sure you fill your partner's tummy with healthy and special dishes. Men love new and good things. Look for uncommon dishes and prepare for him, serve it differently and more romantic and make sure the food taste nice. But if you don't know how to cook, huh! that's very bad and dangerous, so try and learn...it will go a long way helping your home.

Dress sexy always; Most men are not in the business of correcting the way you dress. So you need to look beautiful for him always, change your hair style when it needs to be changed. Get a good fragrance, sexy indoor cloths (shorts, sleeveless tops, small skirts, bikini even sexy under wears) . Again, always change your bed with neat and well decorated bed-sheets, make your home habitable no matter what. It can't cost you much to make your home comfortable for your partner because, you don't know his reason for cheating on you. And please stop the habit of tying wrapper, you look old when you do. Don't think after having children, you can dress like a granny. Always dress smart as you use to dress when you were dating him.

In conclusion, pray for him always because a prayerful woman shields her entire home from danger. Your partner needs your prayers to succeed in his work, life generally. Take everything to God in prayers, he is the only person who can transform him into the man you want him to be because it is not what you can solve by nagging or frowning.
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